There is no spoon

Remember when Neo goes to see Oracle for the first time in The matrix? The small boy is playing with spoon and says "There is no spoon".
How will you define reality? How it is different from matrix, because for brain everything is perceived in the same way.. What is reality? There is no spoon! The spoon exists only in the mind. It is the mind who is defining what spoon is...
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